re healthy coping mechanisms. When I first lost weight when I was younger I went from having an emotional dependency on food and an overeating disorder to having an emotional dependency on restriction and an undereating disorder that left me with constant fainting spells. You’re not going to bully someone into realizing they have an emotional dependency on food that needs to be sorted out through doctors visits, therapy and medication, you’re going to bully them into feeling so low about themselves that they’re going to eat themselves fatter as their emotional issues are continually exacerbated by the harassment. Going to a doctor and seeking help is an act of self love and teaching fat people that they are worth that self love – something that the body positivity movement seeks to do – is what motivates people to get their physical or mental health issues that are leading to their weight problems in check. This idea that we can bully fat people out of being fat or that fat people are encouraged to be fat through the Original kmfdm Sucks Blood Red Rare Shirt of body positivity is completely absurd to me. Fat people know they’re fat, they know it’s unhealthy, and despite how much they may try to act like they don’t care or that they love themselves anyway, I can guarantee you 99% of them hate themselves for it.
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