as the United States, the bishops permitted another work of penance, charity, or piety, of the person’s choosing, in lieu of Friday abstinence. Of course, all anyone heard was “we can now eat meat on Fridays”, and choosing of an alternative penitential practice is virtually unknown. I normally just go ahead and abstain from the meat – it’s the preferred practice, and you have no guesswork as to whether you’ve performed the penance or not. Prayers to you for strength to stop caring about the ex. He is a narcissist. It is one of his ploys. Either an attempt to punish you or he is busy with another victim. I get the only hope you may have, is that if he is still punishing you, then, he still cares and that sick morsel of a crumb is something that you learn to hold onto. Because negative or positive attention, is still attention. I hope you understand there is no shaming or guilting them into talking to you or treating you better. Unfortunately, a narc has no empathy or conscience. The narc is only capable of playing the victim and sees everyone as owing them. Run fast and far and don’t look back. I know this seems impossible because of the way a narc makes you feel like the relationship is one in a million and you wont find any relationship like this one. And pray to God you never do. Your feelings are typical of how a narc makes you dependent on them for happiness, when in reality the narc only gives you grief and the life of walking on eggshells, never knowing what or when the next fight will be and what they want to degrade you with. Breathe my friend and run, there really was never happiness, it is the picture the narc painted in your mind.
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buy it now:I’m Sorry For Your Loss Meme shirt
You can wear whatever you want, but remember: This is the office party. This is a DK Metcalf Vintage Washed Shirt Wide Receiver Homage Graphic Unisex T Shirt of people with whom you work, so if you wouldn’t wear a revealing dress to work, don’t wear it to the office party. Also, don’t drink much you presumably know your limit, so stop well short of it. Because again—you work with these people. When I worked at TV Guide, senior staff regularly attended the Christmas parties, which (at least at the beginning) were lavish, usually held in off-site venues and allowed employees to bring spouses. You don’t want your boss’s boss asking who that was—the girl in the thigh-high bandage dress and hooker heels or the guy who threw up on the white-glitter sparkle Christmas tree. Women get the brunt of the judgmental post-party gossip about attire while men generally have to do something memorably bad, but I imagine a male manager showing up in gold lame hot pants would cause a stir in most business environments.
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